My best friend and I have been real close for about 4 months. I love her to death, but recently, I've discovered something about her. She is a huge flirt and shows no boundaries. By that I mean, she will openly flirt with guys she knows I have crushes on. She once went to the extreme of deciding to date a guy I was trying to get hooked up with and then complaining to me about him. I'm really starting to get worried that she's going to do this to me when I really like a guy. I'm kind of quiet and shy so its easy to see why guys go to her instead of me. I don't want to say anything to her because I don't want to lose her as a friend. What CAN I do?
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You should "break up" with her.
She's not a real friend. Since you've only known her for four months, how can she be your "best friend"? That title is usually reserve for someone you've known for years and someone who actually cares about your feelings...someone who doesn't try to steal your crushes.
She sounds like she is using you. She knows you are shy. She gets the guys that she knows YOU like just to be "one up" on you to make herself feel better. She sounds like she has major self esteem problems. What happens when you get a boyfriend? She's definitely going to try to steal him just to see if she can. That type of girl does not care about her friends.1