My girlfriend is generous, smart, warm hearted, beautiful, sexy, fun and much more. I’m confident that she loves me. I feel like I’ve really lucked out with her. However, when it comes to people’s looks, especially her own, she is incredibly critical. On the attraction scale I think she is a 10 out of 10 but she thinks she is an unsatisfying 6 out of 10. Along with that I think she sees me as an unsatisfying yet deserving 7.
She is in her late 30's and has been single for a long time and never been able to find Mr. Right. She has had men much more attractive and less attractive than me. So I worry that she may not be satisfied with me whenever I see her longingly look at other more attractive men. Along with that, when we are making love, she can’t seem to look directly at me or herself in the mirror.
I’ve started seeing a therapist over this cause ya never know, this all may just be in my mind. Right?
Anyway, should a I care if my attractive girlfriend loves me but doesn't find us attractive
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a 7 is pretty good looking...most men are like a 4 lol
and don't down yourself because she is a 10 obviously she likes you and loves you and thinks your good looking bcuz she is with you.
okay I dated a lot of guys who were 10's and they were cocky and arrogant and players.
then I dated a guy who I would say is like a 7 and his personality made up for the looks part, girls like guys not just based on their looks, maybe she like how funny you are or how caring you are...you know the list can go on forever. my hubby I would say is a 10 because his looks are like a 8-9 and his personality is the best I would give him like a 100...lol he is everything I look for..we both have the same humor..love the same things..list goes on. so stop questioning her love for you.
and about her...my hubby always tells me I'm perfect..but I don't belive that and iw ouldnt be able to look at myself in the mirror either while I'm having sex..i would probably end up laughing. so there ya go..stop worrying :)0
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