For someone who dresses just for herself, you don't seem too happy with such comments. So let me get this straight all the trouble girls go through, all the trouble you go through to look good, you're saying its just for yourself? You go through all this trouble not for yourself but to be more attractive to the opposite sex, to be more appealing to opposite sex, to be desired by opposite sex. Which is natural and nothing wrong with that. If you just dressed for yourself you wouldn't give a sh!t what those guys thought. You would NOT go through ALL this trouble just to look good for yourself now would you?
Guys being possessive you kidding me. Guys chase girls, guys play the game, girls are pursued. They have complete control. In what way guys have any influence or control over girls? So suddenly guys shouldn't have any opinion at all on what they like or prefer. Girls make such comments all the time. Are those girls being possessive and guys bodies belong to them?
Fact that it bothers you is proof itself those opinions and comments matter, that actually looking good for yourself, and looking good to make yourself feel better, in fact consciously or subconsciously is to be more attractive and appealing to the opposite sex. If that wasn't the case you simply would not put in this much effort. You wouldn't shave your legs, get your eyebrows waxed, get your hair done, try to put so much thought into what you're going to wear, wear make up etc.
Imagine if their was an island where there were no guys, just girls (all straight). Would go through all this trouble and dress for yourself? I seriously doubt it. You wouldn't even care what your hair looks like and would put on the first thing you can find. Guys do it too, I do it too. I certainly don't do it for myself, and there is nothing wrong with trying to look attractive for opposite sex. There is simply more pressure on girls than guys, because girls are objects of desire. Guys do the pursuing. For them to get noticed by guys they have to be appealing. If girls did the chasing same amount of pressure be on guys too.
You argument is further contradicted with all the magazines targeted at women. What is the most common theme? Guys have all the right to make comment just as girls do, but that doesn't mean guys should be morons about it. The fundamental, basic reason and what all this revolves around is attracting guys. Otherwise like I said you would seriously go through all this trouble just to look good for yourself?