I'm not necessarily talking about you taking a specific action like trying to get her back etc, but how do you feel when you see pictures of her looking beautiful (not whorish, slutty, etc)?
- Miss her/think about her a little more0% (0)23% (3)15% (3)Vote
- Feel happy for her43% (3)15% (2)25% (5)Vote
- Feel like wanting to date her again and experience the good times0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Jealous and want to be better off (happier, more successful etc) than her14% (1)15% (2)15% (3)Vote
- Other/see answer43% (3)47% (6)45% (9)Vote
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Can I answer this from a female heterosexual stance?
I still find all of my ex's attractive, That is ONE of the factors that contributed to me dating them in the first place. I normally feel like patting myself on the back saying "Daym I've got GREAT taste in men" lol
IF I see that they are still attractive AND doing incredibly well, I feel happy. I feel happy that I've got a great choice in men and I'm also happy that they are doing well and being prosperous.
I've never had a "bad" breakup. but even if I did I'm not a jealous or vindictive person.
I make sure to end things completely when ever I end a relationship. I believe in getting closure so there isn't any backtracking.1