Guys do you find a girl more unattractive when she looks like she is looking for a boyfriend or when she doesn't look like she is looking for one & keeps you wondering if she is single or not?
What if she approached you?
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If she's not showing interest, then she's not attractive... Making an effort is the most essential and basic qualification in the beginning in my opinion. Girls that sit on the sidelines don't get to play the game. I personally don't want girls, that don't want me. I'm not going to guess if she has a boyfriend or not, in fact I don't even care and I don't ask... Girls that are attracted to me will make an effort to get my attention, sometimes they are taken other times they are single. When we talk and flirt, if she has a boyfriend it comes out pretty quickly once I push her boundaries to a certain point. If she has one, that's cool, I just won't push any further. If she's single she starts hinting that she wants to do things with me (generally asking me about what movies are playing, hinting at things she'd like to do, or telling me to have a awesome weekend, etc.), and then I move on that and we do something.
I don't see an expression of interest as desperate. What I consider desperate is when a girl tries to get another guys attention after failing at getting my attention. It's like well I want you, but you don't want me right now, so this guy will do because I'll take anything I can get because I'm desperate. lol Attentions whore do this to feed on who ever will give them attention or to try to make the guy who they like jealous because he isn't drooling over her every second of the day. That's a desperate move.2