First of all my boyfriend and I (not to be rude) are two very attractive people. We are both 23, work out every day, and my mom says we look like a Barbie and Ken except not idiots, haha. But anyway through most of my childhood I was very awkward and kind of ugly. I grew into myself but I still have the heart of an "ugly girl". My boyfriend doesn't help..he's been gorgeous his whole life and if I look bad one day he'll say "What did you do with your makeup? You're wearing too much/you're wearing it wrong, you look weird today." He doesn't understand why that would upset me. Also when I tell him I'm thinking of getting surgery for my face, he always tells me "Okay then go ahead if it makes you feel better," instead of saying "no, you're perfect the way you are."
The weird thing is, he thinks I'm prettier than every girl he knows, and he tells me this. He says it's really important to HIM that I think I'm gorgeous, but how can I think that when he always criticizes me? I feel like we are always arguing about this, and he just says that if a person doesn't like an aspect of themselves they should change it, whereas I think unless its a deformity, people should learn to love themselves regardless. So why does he do this? Why does he tell me I'm the most gorgeous woman he's ever seen, with full sincerity, and then tell me what's wrong with me? And how can I stop starting fights about this?
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Hes just being playful.
I play with my girlfriend this way all the time telling her things similar to what he tells you , and she's gorgeous .
I don't mean any of what I'm saying, I'm just messing with her but she doesn't get all anal about it the way you do.
Hes just messing with you, let it go.0