A married dad looks at me a lot at my son's school. At first I thought nothing of it, but then it became more obvious. One time I was walking by and I looked up and he was staring right at me, looked away really quick, then back again sheepishly. He finds me in a crowd of other parents and stares a bit. I see his reflection in the school windows watching me (it's definitely me as I stand in a section that no one else is in.). Isn't it weird to stare at someone from behind? The weirdest thing he did was come to the school with his wife and proceed to constantly glance over at me right in front of her. I felt like he wanted my reaction even though I don't know this guy from anything! At one point his wife was giving me a stink-eye side glance! I decided to bring my husband to school with me so he would stop staring, but he paid even more attention! He even listened in to a conversation my husband and I were having with a teacher! I looked over and he was staring right at me again!
There are days he seems to keep to himself and I think maybe he's stopped, but then he start again.
What is this about? Anyone else think this is weird? Guys, what is up with this guy?
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What is it about? He thinks your hot, probably wants you although he knows he can't have you
It's not especially weird. Some guys don't understand boundaries. Some may know that they can glance at a lady or even stare under the correct circumstances but some don't get that and it probably means that socially he is a bit inept.
Society does seem to accept a certain amount of ogling. A quick glance or the ocassional stare but this guy doesn't get it. Some days maybe he realizes it but at other times he probably just lets his lust get the best of him. It's also fair to say that he probably isn't all that satisfied in his marriage (not just sexually necessarily).
If it bothers you too much you may need to say something to him. It doesn't have to be confrontational, but something along the lines of (in a relatively crowded area so he has to behave himself) "hey I notice you check me out. That is OK to a point and I'm flattered but it is also a bit inappropriate (particularly with our spouses around) and is going to get you or I in trouble so please stop"1
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