Now I don't care too much of what people think but one thing is bugging me. I am fit and look good by my own standard or any other man would say I am fit and look good. (Especially gays).
Now I hear that women like the female form way more and find the male form kind of weird and a turn off.
Now I have been running and stuff in parks and doing mild stuff at the gym and at both I see women looking at me. At the gym there were 2 and they giggled and it kind of annoyed me. I mean I get that women think our bodies look sick but you don't have to stare and laugh about it.
Sometimes I just feel like I could go to an all male gym and am starting to go to the park early morning or late afternoon where there aren't many people (aka women).
So why is this. It is kind of annoying. I have been learning to ignore it as much as possible though.
Yes, women appreciate the female body, but I'm straight, and although I too appreciate the female body, I would never ever prefer to have that hovering above me instead of a male one (granted that said male is attractive, with a lean with a preferably toned, ab-tastic body). Unless you've gotten a beer belly or muffin top, the male form is not a turn off at all. Don't go to studies to find information about this. Go around actual women and listen to how we drool over men with muscles and abs and hard bodies. As for the two girls giggling, they most likely think you're attractive, hence the giggling. Women don't naturally giggle. We giggle when we want to seem innocent and cute and coy around a guy we like. But also, not every girl is going to be interested in you, just like you're not going to be interested in every girl. That's just how things work, so don't let it get to you.
You say you're in good shape so there's mo reason to assume those girls were laughing at you, it was probably *because* they liked your body...and even if it wasn't it's just stupid to say we're turned off by the male form. if we werent attracted by it we'd all be lesbians, end of story.
I sure don't. I love the male form and everything about it if the guy takes care of himself.
The only time I notice the female form is when I see what I want to look like. I will even ask what exercises a girl is doing to get the arms or whatever part I think I want my body to look like. It's not attraction at all, it's a way of me to improve on my own appearance.
Hahaha girls find the male body a turn off? I wonder how the human species is able to continue on if all women find the male form a turn off. Is it weird? hell yeah but that's just because if you look at the human body from an objective stand point we are extremely strange looking creatures--men and women alike.
No sometimes girls laugh at guys to get attention or see you react. I'm sure you look find. Guys love a guys body strucutre. We just like different ones. Most girls probably won't go for really skiny guys, but it depends how their portions fit.
I think its funny that you assume gay men would be attracted to you. :) I also find it funny you think all women prefer other women's bodies over male bodies. Neither seems likely to be true all of the time. Everyone has their own preferences about what we find attractive.
My advice is to not take things so personally. So you have women look at you. WHY IS THAT BAD?
So you think two of them giggled at you. WHY IS THAT IN MALICE?
One of them could have been teasing the other about how much she wanted to talk to you.
So don't get so upset about what you THINK people may think and just do what you want to do.
Hey, WTH, stop thinking this way, those women who giggled maybe just found you good looking! Women do not find the female body hotter, YOU DO! you do find it extremely hot to the point that if just 1% of women say the female body is hotter, that affects you in a bad way. to make yourself feel better, think of all of those women who are fat or too thin with no boobs or no curves, there are many who are unattractive, I think both the male and the female body can be equally hot to each other, just stop focusing on that, some girls are less physical but still, I've seen many who look at pictures of hot guys with hot bodies and even scream or dream to be in their arms. don't let thoughts like those haunt you, just focus on what rather makes you feel good about yourself.
There was countless research done upon sexual preferences of both women and man.
To assume that girls find the male body disgusting would be the same as accusing the men of being revolted of the female body. Clearly isn't true. This would also be a evolutionary defect or mutation. Althouygh we have an incrisimg number in gay relationships, don't forget that these are just surfacing now when the society is more acceptable of such.