Me and this girl used to look at each other a lot. We've talked before and she was nervous every time we talked. I'm almost certain that she liked me. She used to do things to get my attention in class and stuff like that. Now all of the sudden its like she's not interested anymore. She doesn't try to gain my attention and doesn't even look at me anymore. Did I take too long to ask her out on date or took to long to tell her that I like her? Its been like 3 weeks since she's been trying to get my attention. I guess I haven't showed her enough. Now and it seems like she's just not interested anymore. Should I even try still? What should I do?
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The good news about a girl with a crush, is that they don't give up that easily. Although, she may appear to be not interested in you anymore, she is more than likely playing you a little bit and is testing you to see if you are attracted to her. She is probably watching your every move from the corner of her eyes and is making sure that her crush on you is worth it.
You have to be confident and patient if this is the case. Every now and then, give her a few looks and smiles. Just a quick glance and look away, she will catch that. And don't be afraid to say hi.
Also, don't come onto her just yet. Just like guys that can't stand needy girls, girls can't stand guys that come on to strong. If she does have a crush on you, your patience and mysteriousness will make her want you more in the end. And she will start to give away more signs.
Lets face it, if she is challenging you, in the real world, everyone likes a challenge, and if we have to work hard to get what we want, it will mean so much more to us in the end.
Have faith and be patient, and it will pay off big in the end.0