Bf of almost 2 years tells me he's probably going home after he gets out of work when I asked if he'd be going out because I was out w my gf's and wondered if I'd be seeing him. Tells me to have fun. About 2 hours later I run into him at our local bar which he said he knew I'd most likely be at and joked he was stalking me. Should I be concerned that he said he was probably going home and didn't give me a heads up he'd be out or am I reading too much into this? He did stay by my side and I told him to go back to his friends which he did for about 10 min after a good 45 min w me then came back. I saw him look over at me while I was dancing w my gf's and looked like he was coming over then walked to the other side 3 min later he came to me. Stayed another hour then left to go home. I stayed out w the girls.
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As a semi-psycho girlfriend (not THAT bad I swear) I would absolutely hate the fact that my boyfriend told me he was going home and ended up out and would probably question it just like you are. That being said, as an outsider looking at the facts, it really doesn't seem like anything sketchy is going on. He probably just changed his mind and didn't want to bother you since you were out with your girls. If it was my boyfriend I would have been a little ticked that he didn't at least message me but it's not like you're his babysitter. I really wouldn't worry about it and just let it go. If it really seriously bothers you, you could bring that up to him, but honestly I think the best thing is to just let it go, only say something if this is like something you're losing sleep over.0