Turn on: Men who can dance (at least to the rhythm); men who share some or most of my interests (geek stuff); funny and musical like someone said below me; guys who play guitar lol that just...specially if they're good; men with personal opinion; stand up for themselves but aren't complete d***s about it or literally fight with others for it (I probably have more but can't think of any other right now)
Turn off: Men who shave/wax everything they got (same as what sparrow24 indicated so no explanation she has it all there); men who are more feminine than I am - can't separate them from the mirror, use way too many products, has too high self-esteem that's actually overrated by themselves; guys who tend to pretend to look more ass-hole like to impress people; have no respect for me/people; don't dance and rather stay like a wall next to bunch of people having fun(don't care if they can't but that they don't and we're in a club?); take themselves wayyyy to seriously (again like sparrow24, it's same for me)...
I don't find fat guys or men attractive. I find smart intellectual men attractive. BUT... there are exceptions... eg: I was in a relationship with a not so goodlooking fat guy. but he had a way with words. also a guy with with a plan.. knows where he's going. good head on his shoulders. deal breakers... hmmm... not too fussy. if can work/talk it out than is fine.
Turn ons- hot, funny, buff, can cook, enjoys cunnilingus but hates fellatio, musical variety, good personality, masculine, sweet and sensitive
Turn ons - funny men, musical men, when a guy remains calm in hostile situations, men that love dogs, watching a man chop wood, and much more.
Turn offs - men that take themselves too seriously, men that lose their cool after being teased, men that are hateful to others for no reason, arrogance, men that have no facial hair and no body hair, and much more.