I like this guy who is short and chubby, like a mix of Seth Rogen and Jonah Hill. He makes me laugh and that is so important in me liking a guy. I am very girly; my nails and hair are always done and I always dress very neatly. He told me I was beautiful and pointed out all the things he likes about my physical appearance: lips, breast, smooth skin, pedicured feet, etc. But he turned me down. Is it because he is intimidated and thinks I can't possibly like him. or is he just not interested in me. Also I could be coming on too strong? I don't have a clue what to do.
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He could be trying to push you away by saying that he is dating 3 other girls. Also, he could be trying to make himself more desirable to you by saying he is dating 3 other girls. It could be that he really likes you and doesn't want to hurt you. Therefore, he won't have sex with you because he thinks you will get attached. Whatever the reason is, he really likes you, because he thinks that you are physically beautiful. And in my experiences, that is about 85% of the attraction for men (physical beauty).
However, I don't know what you mean by "he turned you down." Do you mean he turned you down sexually? Or did he turn you down when you asked him to be a boyfriend? If he turned you down sexually, ask him what is wrong. I want to know the answer to that one myself. But if he turned you down about being your boyfriend, heck, a lot of us do that at some point. We just don't want to be in a relationship, it doesn't matter how good the female looks. So, I wouldn't sweat that too much. That is just a man not wanting to feel locked down.
Again, if he turned you down for sex, you should call and ask him. Or you could send a text. The only problem with the text is that he may not respond. If he doesn't want to answer you, he'll tell you that he didn't receive the text. It is great cover for us. That is why I love the invention of texting.0