I have a coworker who says I look childish for my 21-years and that's why guys think I'm not attractive. she looks older than her 21 years of age because she's overweight and wears a lot more make up.
anyway, based on my avi, what would you think of me?
its okay to be blunt :) I just want to know. my coworker says she's saying it for my own good, though I feel like my other coworker -and my crush- may feel the same. he was going to tell me what he thought of me but my female coworker kinda butt in and pulled me off.
I don't think you look childish at all. But pictures are deceiving, they don't show how you walk, talk, move around...
Anyway, if you do look childish in real life, it is not because of your looks.
Overweight people tend to pick on others that lack what they have to make them feel better about themselves. Typical is when obese women ridicule other women for "having no t*ts" and obese men ridiculing other men for "being scrawny without muscles". We all know they would trade in a heartbeat.
You look good. Don't worry about her, whenever people criticize you like she did just blow it off and pretend you aren't bothered. You could have some like good, that way when I'm 30 I'll still look like I'm 20.