It may be a reach her, but I have a vibe that a coworker likes me. Lots of signals here and there, but can be up and down with me. I notice that she will look out of the corner of her eye, or look over at me and smile when she is talking to other guys. Why? Also, our department is mostly guys, I am relatively new, but we all go out for department lunches on occasion. She seems to act weird telling me she is going to ride by herself because she has to run errands after lunch (she's done this the last couple of lunch meetings). She is pretty shy so maybe she's afraid of driving with someone. Last time she turned to me and said "i'm going to ride by myself because I need to go to the bank" I was like "uhhh okkkk" LOL What stood out to me the most was that our intern needed a ride and she looked at me out of a whole group of guys to see if he could ride hitch a ride with us (the guys). Which was totally fine, I know this is weird but I was thinking "why are you asking only me?" Like why did she pinpoint me as the one, like I was the leader of the group or something (I'm not). Being some what of the new guy, I'm not sure why I was focused on. Any observations or thoughts ladies? Thanks!
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i think maybe you should ask her to ride together and you should try to be her firned before even flirting because that way she will be more comfortable around you0