How do I make him look a little harder

theres this guy that I like at my gym and I've been talking to him for a little while how do I let him know that I'm in to him


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Okay listen to me on this one, if a guy wants you he will make his intentions clear. You however, need to throw some bait at him so he bites. Ask him what he does on the weekends or outside of the gym, then see if he is doing anything that day and if not give him your number and say "If you think of something to do hit me up, I would love to join." it sends the sign that you are interested in him, and he won't think you are being too pushy because you are letting him set up the plans. Just don't be all over him if he isn't interested after your first hint, let the guy go if he isn't into you.

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    • Good plan. Be direct and clear, and let him take the next step.

What Guys Said 11

  • You're in luck! It's the gym. There's no setting where it is more socially acceptable to be in short, skin-tight apparel. Plus weightlifting boosts a guys testosterone level, making them aggressive and horny.

    Above all, give him a subtle smile when you see him, then:

    *Stretch in front of him

    *Do butt bends in front of him.

    *Exercise where doggy-style position and lift/extend one leg back

    *no matter how much he's bicep curling, act like you're impressed by how heavy the weight is. When he's resting, reach up and squeeze his bicep and tell him, "wow, it's so hard."

    Unless he's homo, or you're fat, that should do it.

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  • Why not be a bold girl, and just walk up to him and introduce yourself! See if he stammers or can be cool about it! Test his vocabulary!

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  • Give him your number, ask him to get coffee or something. There's nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy one a casual date like getting coffee. Think about this too, some guys, even the buff ones that work out all the time may be shy. Sometimes guys really appreciate it when a girl initiates things because it takes pressure off of him. My ex asked me out and we were very happy for the year and a half we were together. It was her depression that made things go south. Anyway, just be forward with him and if he still doesn't bite as in call you, then move on.

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  • Give him your phone number. No need to be coy and try and test him to see if he will make a move. It's not 1950.

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  • You tell him. That being said you'll find people will confuse and mislead anything these days that's just the way it is. Good luck.

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  • Just ask if you can workout together.

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  • When he is benching, sit cowgirl style on his hips and ask him if he needs some help lifting ;]

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    • your really funny lol I like you

  • Have you considered speaking to him? You know, with your face.

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  • I agree, be bold and talk to him. It takes some working at, but you will do it.

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  • take a risk at rejection and ask him to a formal setting. coffee, movie, whatever it is...you're trying to see him outside of the usual place, so ask him. If you're rejected, you move on, nbd

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  • stop chasing perfect looking guys

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What Girls Said 2

  • ''hey,would you like to grab a cup of coffee/have dinner with me sometime?''

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  • How to let him know you're into him and how to make him look at you a little more seriously are two pretty different questions. Which do you want an answer to?

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