I don't understand how some of these lame, douchey guys get the girls so easily and I'm just standing here dazed and confused
i mean I can talk with females converse and crack jokes all day
being flirty on the other hand is something left to be desired
friend of mine told me being assertive is the key, just to go up to a girl and tell em how you feel straight up
is this the case? what piece of the puzzle am I missing here?
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There are worse things then telling a girl how you feel, like doing nothing, but in such a case it only works if the feelings are mutual. It's not very charming unless your a master of words and hit aspects she's been daydreaming about coming true. I.e. It won't win you the girl but it will bring to light anything that's been there from the start.
Guys who make attracting girls easily are assertive in nature, that parts true, but it's not so much about telling another person what you're feeling, it's about showing your true intent so she experiences the emotions first hand; charming in both words and actions.0