I'm not sure how hard it is for guys, but both guys and girls should do their best.
Unless there is some kind of agreement between a man and a woman, or unless there is some physical or mental disability, then both people can do their best.
I'd say that guys are not as good at doing chores though, seeing as how girls have been used to doing chores for a long time. Times are changing though, although in places like the US, it's a lot more progressive in this area.
As frustrating as it sounds, just suck it up and learn your place.
Men complain about hard labor in the house too. What if a tree falls down your yard? Its a mans job to chop it off or take it out. And with all the aches and pain, he wishes his wife would come and help.