I'm sure you have all seen the fat/old men who have younger and more attractive Thai/Philippine girlfriends/wives. Are they basically just long term prostitutes? Or do they genuinely desire European men that badly?
Basically women in the UK only want men they can use as fashion accessories or status symbols and have absolutely no use or desire for unattractive men like me. Is there any hope abroad or would I only find gold diggers/women looking to immigrate?
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There's two ways to go about this, and the results are usually very different.
The "right" way is to live in the country for a while, and meet real, normal girls just like you would in the US. You need to spend some real time there, to learn their culture and traditions and social expectations, and you need to spend enough time to get to know them, know their family, and make sure the two of you are compatible. Such relationships tend to be successful.
The "wrong" way is to meet some bar girl on a trip (or online), marry her with only a short time of being physically together, and move her "home" with you. In this situation, you ARE essentially getting a long-term prostitute. Many women in poorer countries will be encouraged to marry a "rich" American (most men who can afford to travel there are decently well-off, especially by their standards) by their families, but it's really for the purpose of getting her a green-card, which will in turn allow her to sponsor getting her other family members to the US. Typically, once she has a green card, she will insist, for one reason or another, that her mother MUST come to the US. She will be sick, or there will be a baby that needs care, or something, and the man will be strongly influenced to help mom come over. Once mom is here, the clock is usually ticking for the divorce, and often the woman will try to get as much money out of the guy as possible. It's a very common tale.0