A guy friend who I've never met (met him on a dating site) and have known him for a year said the reason I don't get approached is because I don't visually stimulate guys.
Therefore I sent him a recent picture of myself and I had my hair straightened, and make up( foundation, mascara, blush, powder and lipstick) on.
He said that I looked like plain jane and that I didn't do anything with my hair. How the hell do I still look plain with putting in that much effort?
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I just put my hair into a bun and wear sweats. Its too much effort with little payoff to do all of the senseless beauty regimen stuff that most girls do. I feel better simply not giving a f***. I feel free an I feel like I'm staying true to myself. I value my dignity more than meaningless attention from guys. Okay I typed a wall of text about how arbitrary stuff like dating and short term relationships with 'boyfriends' are but its pointless
Being plain is actually unique. What he means is he wants you to wear the uniform of the attention starved. Go take a look at Facebook and instagram profiles of girls who take loads of pictures of themselves in different angles and outfits to get an idea of what I mean.
Actually I'll just tell you what will probably help you get what you want. Most likely what you'll have to do is straighten your hair, go heavier on the makeup, and wear tight and revealing clothing (see forever21, urban outfitters, h&m etc). If your hair is only shoulder length or shorter you probably need extensions because guys really like very long hair. On lazy days wear yoga pants or leggings as pants with no underwear under to emphasize your ass crack and allow maximum jiggle. On dates make sure you're very teasing and flirty. Don't act masculine even if you naturally have a masculine personality. Be seductive and suggestive. Also become society's definition of 'fun'. Laugh at sex jokes and have a few of your own. Some guys and girls will say girls who are like that are trashy but notice they always have boyfriends.0