I have started in a new job and there is this guy I have a crush on. I was sure he liked me too because he sent a lot of signs. He was very nice and helped me in everything. He smiles to me much and is constantly joking with me. He always looks at me a long time. Sometimes he acts really nervous around me, for example he drops stuff to the floor. Then sometimes he just ignores me and can't look at me in the eye. Some of the other coworkers sometimes say weird things about us...like for example that we should walk together when we leave from the workplace...or I should tell him that he is cute...I know they are joking but that is just weird...The problem is that I recently found out he has a girlfriend who he has been with quite a long time...So I really don't know what's going on or what I should do...I still like him a lot but I feel that it is so wrong because he is taken..
Most Helpful Guy
cause people can't control it if they find someone attractive. you should do nothing. he has a girlfriend and that should be all you need to know to just be friends with him. if the relationship he is in fails then maybe you can step up to the plate. but you don't want a guy who will either cheat on his girlfriend or will dump a girl just to be with another girl because it shows that they are fickle and are only committed to a girl until another one comes along.
now if a year or so you two just seem to have an amazing connection (like soulmates) maybe then if he dumps his girl for you it's OK, but this guy clearly just has a crush. nothing should happen based on a new crush. be his friend and leave it at that for now1