What I mean is, if you could get over someone's lack of confidence, as you would looks, and he had an amazing personality, was emotionally there etc.. would his lack of confidence still be unattractive?
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I think a lack of confidence generally lead to unattractive behavior in either sex. Either being too desperate and needy, or being rude because you're nervous or being so shy that people don't realize you're looking for someone. Etc. Really, a ton of negative behaviors in dating come from a lack of confidence. Inner confidence leads to people being assertive, more apt to try for what they want, less likely to put someone down out of personal insecurity, more considerate of others, less self-absorbed, more fun, etc. There is a wide area of confidence, of course. Someone who just needs some love and support is completely normal, but someone who expects their partner to always bolster their self worth is difficult.0