he makes her delete everything that has to do with other guys on her profile. he controls what she does. and it gets on my nerves. she's scared to break up with him cause she doesn't want to hurt his feelings..
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Yes, of course but all you can do is convince her as much as you can to why she should leave him. That's all and I'm sure you have done that. She has to make that decision for herself because women like this take a long time to finally leave their abusers. Emotionally he's got her. That's why its hard for her to leave because abusers make their partner feel like from the very beginning that no one is gonna want them cause of this and that. Pretty much brain washed to think she can't live without him and feels she deserves what he does to her. Like I said, he got to her feelings first then the abuse came later after she loved him so he can control her and now she's confussed. She wants out but don't know how. What you can do: Get others to talk to her and even better, someone who was once in her shoes. Your friend, she is insecure and doesn't feel too good about herself to allow this.1