I'm not looking for the same canned response that is always found here because really, there's a lot more to it than just being confident, and good looking. I want you to use your head and tell me reasons why YOU don't find a good guy appealing compared to a bad boy. Be truthful. Also consider the concepts of casual dating as opposed to serious relationships.
What is the TRUTH when it comes to good guys finishing last if at all? Honestly I have just been trying to get through life, the best way I can, being the best person I can be, and it's gotten me absolutely nowhere with girls, and something is wrong with that. I shouldn't have to sleaze it up for even the prettiest of girls to take notice in me. That's just not even right. That's not what attracts me to girls I will just say that, and that applies to most other men too.
So enlighten us, all you girls here, and tell us what's really going on in your brain.
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Girls, what are the drawbacks to good guys compared to the bad guys?
In my observations they tend to be less attractive, confident, interesting, and fun to be around and more entitled (I'm nice I should have the gal I want nothing ), bitter (gals are stupid), resentful (gals have it easier...uh no both genders are on common ground getting an attractive appealing compatible partner who seeks the same relationship), and misogynistic (gals are b*tches/gals don't know what they want...uh not wanting you doesn't mean they know what they want) .
What is the TRUTH when it comes to good guys finishing last if at all?
In my opinion the truth is that guys tend to desire and seek partners that are more attractive than themselves (no cowsh*t and bullsh*t about leagues as I find it amusing how guys generally rate gals into leagues but when it comes to applying those leagues to himself suddenly leagues don't exist so he can get a hot gal).
As well as in my opinion guys genuinely desire to treat gals like sh*t as noted by how it seems whenever the guy has an opportunity to he will so guys are only 'good guys' if they have no other attractive or appealing trait so they rely on their goodness to attract a partner.
The combination of seeking more attractive than oneself and relying solely/mainly on goodness tends to fail as a guy being nice to a gal he wants something from is not a oh so special trait so the guy tends to be bitter, resentful, or misogynistic thinking being nice to a gal is where they fail.1