My girlfriend told me I'm a really rare guy, but I honestly don't believe this. I mean, like one time we were out and she started feeling sick, and we were far away from the car, so when we were walking back I took her bag and carried it for her, then when we got home I asked her if she wanted Advil, and then got her water too, and I do stuff like that for her all the time. Another time when she was upset I listened to her, and at the end she said, "thanks for making me feel better", and I said, "all that matters is you're happy".
At the same time, if she's acting demanding, or pushy, or whining about I still call her out on it, so I put up with any of that stuff, and have no problem saying no to her, but she's really nice to me too, like she worries about me a lot and looks out for me, which is why I always look out for her.
But she told me most guys won't do simple stuff like that for their girlfriends, and it surprised me Because most of it's so easy, but it really helps and makes someone else feel better... is it really that rare for a guy to be like this?
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*shrugs* I don't know my boyfriend does little things like that, too. But, he also doesn't take my sh*t and vice versa. That's what a relationship is...doing little things to make the other person happy while still being able to balance each other out.0