Dont get me wrong, its a good idea to make yourself look your best, but I notice girls will shift the majority of their focus on that instead of being a fun outgoing person. Girls in clubs will sit there and wait all night for someone to talk to them instead of just making some light convo about nothing (so they wouldn't risk being "rejected" or whatever the f*** that means).
The obsession over small things in appearance makes them extremely boring people to talk to in my experience. Anyone feel that way?
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I rely on my personality mostly.
I've come to terms with the fact that I look 5 years younger than I actually am, and that I'm not all that "hot" or "sexy" to begin with. I don't spend much, if any, time on my appearance because, you know, if the best you can do is look 15 when you're 20, why bother? :p
I depend on my personality and intelligence to get me through life, make friends, and attract guys.
I do know girls who obsess over their looks though. I have a friend who, if we decide to go to the gym, it takes her two hours to get ready. I didn't know one needed to do their hair and makeup to go to the gym lol. I literally use my hands to put my hair in a ponytail and then we go.
You can guess though, I'm not very popular with the male population due to my lack of effort hahaha :p2