When do you change from looking for fun, distracting girls to date..
and start looking for a girl to have a family with?
What causes the change?
But guys who are just 3 years older then me, are looking for more then I'm willing to give...
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It's not a matter of changing. Guys don't change. They move onto different things. That's why so many guys avoid those "relationship" women. They keep trying to change the guy. They're never happy with the guy from the start. So they'll keep trying to change the guy to the point where the guy says "I thought she liked me..."
The other fact of the matter is, having children in this economy right now is a luxury. The claim that "we made more jobs" is not really true because they're part time jobs and raising a kid without a full time job is suicide. So many people can't even get a full time job. So think about finding a full time job that actually pays good money. I'm not saying this in a "girls just want money" way, but merely pointing out that you can't raise a good family without a good job.
As for age, that can go either way. Some 21 year olds go heavy into partying and others stay bookworms and never have a drop of alcohol. I never was big into drinking at 21 but I did have a lot of alcohol I think around my mid twenties. So it can any which way. You got middle aged and old people who are regulars at certain bars too.1