From what I see it isn't even a matter of looks either. Some of the prettiest girls go after some real low life guys that aren't even that good looking, and their behavior is far from being refined and proper, even socially acceptable, but when a guy comes around with many positive attributes and is at least considerably handsome, these girls mysteriously shy away, or will say they aren't interested.
By why are these girls so quick to get to know these guys that they have to know will have no significance in their lives, and barely even attempt to talk or get to know a guy that is so much more fit for them? It doesn't make any sense. These guys are giving them ALL the reason to make the effort to get to know them, but they don't. This isn't even a matter of it "not being the right guy" either because they're not actually dating the right guys anyway, the guys they do choose to spend their time with.
Who are they to rule a good guy off so quickly? To the extent where they won't even be friends with the guy? This is what guys are actually dealing with now these days! It's so beyond frustrating. It really makes me quite angry, thinking about it.
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Why do girls brush off good guys but are so quick to try and get to know bad guys?
Probably because the bad guys are more attractive, interesting, fun to be around, or have more wealth/status.
I find guys are only good to gals when they have no to little other desirable traits as it seems goodness/niceness is only a ploy used to achieve the goal of f*cking a gal going by how easily and often so many guys become the a**hole they truly are because being nice 'isn't working'.
By why are these girls so quick to get to know these guys that they have to know will have no significance in their lives, and barely even attempt to talk or get to know a guy that is so much more fit for them?
Egh a bit off to state which guy is so much more fit for them especially as I find guys tend to be quite bias thinking they are entitled to the gal they want so if they want her they think that he's more fit for her than other guys.
Who are they to rule a good guy off so quickly?
They are people who get to decide what they want for themselves.
To the extent where they won't even be friends with the guy?
In my opinion considering how often guys whine and b*tch about the friend zone and how it's using and abusing a guy that's a good thing as at least she won't endure the likelihood of having a guy she thought was her friend truly be a guy who wanted in her pants and b*tched about her behind her back.1