I ask because I was inspired by my 18 year old college friend saying she wouldn't drink even if she 21 because she's a Goody-goody two shoes.
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I was bad to other human beings, got expelled and then suspended twice from my next school and I constantly bunked, fought with teachers, hit other students so I was considered a bad girl because I had a IDGF attitude. I was a TERROR and was sent to do community service, visit a Psych for years and had a couple of hearings at the Human Rights Commission
But I never did any:
Sleeping around/hooking up.
I'm 22. The legal age for everything here in South Africa is 18 and I still don't drink and I've never touched drugs - not even weed. Only been to a club twice and spent the night sitting alone on the couches. I'm in a long term relationship with the second guy I've ever kissed.
So you decide what is good and what is not.
I like not having done any of that stuff. I feel special when people hear about it. They look at you differently. Treat you differently for sure. Most people I know drink/do drugs because they are curious and want to experience it... But basically everyone does it, you're just part of the herd and the herd has all had The. Exact. Same. Experience. Nothing interesting there.
I can have just as much fun as you when you're drunk.
I can act just as stupid even though I'm sober and I can have deeper conversations than you can while you're high.