This guy and I were flirting at work for quite a while. As he was really shy it took me quite some time to get him to be comfortable talking to me. Once wr started talking regularly he seemed to lose interest which whatever at least I had a new friend right?
Now I have no idea what happened. We had a perfectly pleasant convo the last time we talked over a month ago and all he has done is ignore me completely. To the point he will look up at the ceiling if I pass by, and actually turns his back to me to walk past me. Which is annoying as we are both far far past the age for this.
Except for the past three weeks when I am not looking I catch him watching me or at least looking at me. And I mean actually look at me, as in about three times longer than a glance around to see what's going on and happen to meet someone's eye. Granted I have stopped returning any eye contact as he just decided to act as though he hated me unless he looks at me. What in the world is wrong with him.
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Usually, when I leave and try to come back, I do it because she was playing hard to get and I hoped that she'd drop her games when I return, or I thought that she liked someone else better than me but I'd show her interest again if it turns out that I was wrong. I'm not saying any of that applies to you, but just explaining why I might do it. And despite what most women think the reason is—that he became interested in someone else and thought that they were about to date but she rejected him—it is never the reason (because I'd date them both until I was official or had become physical with one of them before letting the other go).0