Has anybody on here ever had a time where they saw a girl or guy that looked really good on a certain day, but you didn't wanna say "hey, you look pretty/cute today" because you were afraid they would view you differently and might avoid you?
I know this girl in the Marching band who looked extremely pretty and wanted to somehow tell her, but I was afraid that if I did, she would think differently about me and avoid me after that, so I didn't tell her.
Has anybody else ever dealt with this? This is open to both guys and girls. I'm just curious.
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Do you have a crush on this girl? Is that why a guy would compliment a girl because he is attracted to her?
This guy I know. He compliments me. When I walk by him he is like, hey gorgeous. Once when I was joking around with him even heard him mumble beautiful when I was walking off. I had a big crush on him so that made my day!
Just was not sure if he was just being friendly or not though, regardless it still made me feel good and all he got was a smile in return.
Another time I had a crush on someone in the past and complimented them on their new hair cut. I could he got a good ego boost out of that to and that made me feel good!
There is no harm doing it. But I mainly only compliment people I am attracted to. :-). Is this the same for guys?