The girl I am seeing is really athletic and has a great body. She can pretty much beat me at any sport. I am really skinny, 6 feet and 155 pounds. I am slowly putting muscle on because I workout 5 days a week, it just takes me a long time to do it. It is nothing that she does, I just feel insecure and she has this great body and I feel like I should be able to giver her that back in return. We haven't had sex yet but are probably getting close. I can put on weight so my face doesn't look gaunt but then my body gets that skinny fat look. So I don't know which is worse.
Is this something I should bring up? Has anyone else been here before? Appreciate any thoughts on the matter.
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Drop your insecurities. She wouldn't be dating you if it was an issue.
If you focus on this too much, you are going to put an unnecessary strain on the relationship and possibly ruin it.
Focus on getting to know her better and focus on the HEALTH of your relationship.