I hate my height, I honestly hate it so much and I had thoughts of suicide in High School because of it.
I'm 4'10 and skinny so I look like a little kid, and I have zero confidence b.c of my height so I don't talk to guys or flirt when guys talk to me etc. etc. When I look at tall women I feel so envious and it gets to a point where I could cry because of it
How do I over come this?
It's so sad b.c you can fix weight, but there is nothing you can do about height.
Damn it meant to post this in "other" sorry
And I don't envy only tall women, even women who are like 5'2 I'm so envious of, I just wish I had like 2 more inches...even thinking about it now it's so frustrating :(
Hey that's not so bad, don't be sad.. some guys like small girls. no need to worry, it's like your small and cute, very attractive.. just as attractive as tall and cute.. don't worry about it. Wear heels if it make you feel good, I'm sure you're fine though ;)
There is nothing wrong with being short, in fact every girl I've dated except one have been 5'3'' or less... and many other guys are the same. I don't see why you would envy tall women, I find far fewer tall women attractive than short girls. For the most part being tall is a more masculine thing, you'll find that men are on average taller.
What's up with the "petite" girls on here trying to get compliments by acting helpless?
If guys don't talk to you or flirt with you it's NOT because of your height. Few girls have guys flock to them. Few guys have girls flock to them. Real life requires EFFORT for the majority of people.
And tall women say the EXACT same thing as you. They feel envious of short girls because short is seen as feminine, where as tall is a masculine trait. And considering most tall girls don't look like models it doesn't work in their favor.
Some guys like that look while others don't. You have your own preferences as well.
But you can't please everyone in life. So focus on making yourself happy and you'll find someone who finds you attractive.
Honestly think of it this way the shorter you are the wider range of guys you can get... At least in my opinion I don't really like when I am taller then a guy and you won't have that issue! There are so many more things you could be upset about why be upset with something you can't change?
Men love women in all shapes and sizes. It is not your height but your confidence level. I am considered quite tall for a girl. I am 5'10-5'11 range and I have never had a problem getting a guy. Why? Because I am confident with who I am and I know how to flirt with them and I generally love myself most days. So I would start with learning to love yourself for who you are and your confidence level will go up and you will start to see others liking you too. If a man doesn't like me or you for our height then he's not a second look IMO. I am not shallow enough to disregard a guy because he is shorter than me
Whaddup - I'm 5'4, petite as hell, and I've got no bum. Whatsoever. I weigh all of 98lbs. I'm 21 and I look 15. I get guys. Don't whine about your height. I agree with the cat in the hat girl, there's another reason you don't get men.
Perhaps because you act like a little kid- crying? Really? Envy? No one controls their height.
Your confidence throws guys off. Not your size. Men love petite women.