I'm just really petite in general, and I do have breasts that show and stuff, but my bodytype is just really small in general. I feel like media is now saying that curvy women are more attractive, and more guys are into curvy women. I kinda wanna get bigger, but I have high matabilism, and I've always been petite. So guys out there, truthfully, are skinny girls unattractive for you? I've started exersicing now and eating more food, and healthier food because I want to stay healthy, but at the same time, I look really petite and small.
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No. Those who are bashing skinny people are no better than those who bash overweight people. Meaning, you shouldn't pay any attention to them. They're just bullies who are trying to feel better about themselves.
And since I'm skinny myself, yes, I've noticed this "trend" too. I don't remember exactly when I noticed it, but I do remember that this picture link was one of the first ones that I saw that seemed to follow this trend. Not only is it offensive to those who actually do suffer from eating disorders (very rarely do you get them by choice), but it also tries to perpetuate this idea that all girls who are slimmer than her are somehow anorexic? I don't really know, but that's just kind of the vibe I got from her and the picture. And what made me even more sad was reading all the comments on that picture. Most of them were all like "fuck yeah, REAL women have curves!" or whatever and I'm just like... I'm skinny... I barely have any curves... am I not a woman?
But anyway. You shouldn't really listen to people who shame skinny people. What's more important is that you love yourself for who you are, bones and all. And if any guy is actually prepared to not date you/dump you just because you're "too skinny" or you're not curvy enough, then they're not worth your time anyway.1