besides looks what do guys find attractive and really look for in a girl?
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I am attracted to a woman that can carry herself in such a way that:
I can see that she tries to know herself (she isn't afraid to confront herself)
has some confidence
isn't afraid to be the smartest one in the room ( I hate women that think I want them to play dumb, if you know how to split the atom or the solution to credit default swap abuse. Be proud about it)
respects herself enough to go for what she wants. (women that want to give the apperance of being chased and captured are useless. I want someone that can say/show she wants me.)
For instance: I have never found Beyonce attractive because I first saw her in some early public access destiny's child interviews and she seemed annoying, fake, and making an effort to be MTV fun instead of intelligent. My friend went to a convention at an island resort recently. He ran into Beyonce on vacation and left feeling the same way about her as I have always felt. His fantasy was crushed! LOL0