To me it appears that Black guys, white guys, Mexicans guys, any guy period are going after white, Mexican, Asian , Latin, and bi-racial women. I am a black woman 20 years old, I'm more attracted to white guys but I am not picky. If I notice a handsome black guy, he is usually with a Mexican or white woman. I feel like in order to attract a man today, I have to have light skin, long hair, a slim nose, small lips and a big butt or boobs. I am short, skinny, dark skinned, I don't wear to much makeup and I don't wear weaves or fake nails. My hair is straight and I have an athletic body. I am soft spoken, short, and humble. To me I am the opposite of what men want in their women today?
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Unfortunately, Black women and Asian men are least attracted people in the US, at least according to match.com. The reason is black women seem to be too masculine and Asian men are too feminine. Thus, you are fighting an uphill battle. However, I'm not saying you are not attractive or beautiful. It's just going to be more difficult for you to have dating opportunities. I know because I'm in the same boat. Now, we can be stubborn and be prideful and stick with "who we are," or we have to do something that aligns with what society thinks is beautiful. You can't dye your skin just like I can't change the "slantiness" of my eyes. So that's out. Working out and getting a "hot" body is step one. Being more flirtatious and coy is another option. You could put more make up on. Smile and eye f*%king could work as well. You may have to just approach guys; it is the 21st Century.3