I have a friend who is very self conscious about how pale she is. She thinks that most guys will go for a tan girl, over a pale one. It got me thinking, is this true? Personally, I like pale-ish girls, but it's not a big deal at all to me. What do you guys think?
I don't care about tans. My friends always stress during and after summer over their tans because they want to be as tan as possible. So much stress for literally nothing haha. I'm extremely pale myself, so it wouldn't be good for me to try to get a tan. I would just burn my skin and get skin cancer or something.
Fake tans look way worse than natural tans, but if a guy has a natur tan that's fine to me. Also if his skin tone is just naturally that colour, that's good too. My fiance is white but he is on the dark side and always tans in the summer. It looks good!
tbh this is actually something i seem to take notice of… I'm very attracted to tanned skin.. i only discovered that recently. NOT to say that I'm not attracted to fair and darker skin… but it plays absolutely no role in who i date
The only way it matters to me is if they are SO tan or focused on tanning that it becomes unhealthy. If they're just in the sun a lot and are active, that's fine. If they look like beef jerky, I'd be concerned.
I prefer no tan, but if they came by their tan honestly (by being outside as part of their lifestyle, rather than specifically tanning), then that's fine. in my opinion, there's no reason to intentionally tan, and fake-baking and spray-tans are LESS attractive to me than normal skin color.
Doesn't really matter to me. I'm pale though, hahaha. My pale Irish skin. But anyway pale looks good so does tan and dark really isn't one of the things that matter too much since I can find them all attractive.