Met my old roommate today, he's one yummy-looking guy. Other people have said that he's average, but I think he's hot. I think part of what makes me think he's hot is that he doesn't seem to realize that he's hot. He acts so naturally, so carefree.
I know my question would probably get the most answer "yes" from girls, because girls get complimented (fake compliments?) all the time by guys, yet have thousands of insecurities. This would make them feel unattractive, even though they are.
If you answer this question with "yes", what makes you feel unattractive?
I guess I'm probably like 90% of males. I would not say I'm 'said to be attractive'. The odd person says I am, but they seem to be a distinct minority who I assume are either being nice or just have unusual tastes, or more often in my mind, like a couple things about me plus something about my personality.
But its not like it is for general reasonably attractive girls where a dozen guys online a day will say they're so attractive and they don't see it. What a girl who is a 6 or 7 gets in online complements a day is what i'd get in 5 years.
I agree with what you describe as a strong point to make someone attractive: a natural way of behaving, being friendly, bringing humour. People who want to be attractive and play a role are generally avoided by others. I don't want an actor in my bed, I want a sweet girl to kiss and cuddle :-)
I've been told that I'm attractive and have an awesome personality..but the fact that chicks are hesitant to date me makes me wonder if their compliments are fake..I can't help thinking that they just want to get acquainted so that I can connect them with others or they can use me in some other way.
Most girls online have said I'm ugly or average. Girls in real life do not compliment me. So no I do not think I am attractive but I don't completely hate the way I look. I appreciate what I got. It can always be worse
Yes. I'm average honestly, and I hate it when people insist on calling me beautiful or anything of the sort because it feels fake to me haha. And I really hate the way my face looks without makeup (I don't even use much, just a little mascara and concealer). I just look tired and bitchy. :/
Its not that I feel unattractive just that I don't think there's anything special. I see and know numerous girls who are a lot more attractive and don't know why/how a guy could be attracted to me over them. I guess its that I just don't see it in me but its not something I've that I think about a lot or takes up too much of my time. I don't dwell on it or see it as a confidence thing I just don't put too much value in looks
Yes i have been told i am attractive but i find myself just average or nothing special about my looks. i have always seem myself as average..especially when i was often mocked at when i was a kid
I feel like yes haha only because I feel like my habits make me unattractive. It is kind of stupid really! lol but, I don't like how clumsy I am and how messy I can be when cooking or something. haha I know that is all very stupid but those were just examples!
I think, it is more of a---my ex boyfriends were douchebags so it lowered my self esteem lol I am working on it. By being by myself and fixing what I don't like about myself =)
It sucks because a lot of people think I am some great amazing thing lol a bit of an overstatement I feel! But, it is true when people say you are your worst critic! And, I feel like, I won't let anyone get close enough to me to see my flaws. =/
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