So my mum tells me that the reason why I am single is because I over dress (I always wear dresses, heels and have nice makeup on- This is when I am out during the day) and that I am too loud and a little forward. Is this a turn off for guys?
I have a great paying job and I am an independent lady who is looking for love.
What some of the other guys have said really rings true. Looking hot/attractive is good in all, and im sure plenty of guys would want to bang you, but they probably also want to then kick your ass straight out the door to. The proverbial classy hot chick, is the fantasy, but in reality, tends to just be high maintenance that guys dont want to put up with.
secondly, for the loud and forward bit, sure some guys will like that, most won't. most guys tend to like their women to be at least a little submissive.
but another thing some of the guys pointed out, was personality trumps looks/appearance. you looks might get a to talk to you, but its what you are like and what you when you talk back that makes all the difference.
regardless, there should be plenty of guys out there who dont give a fuck about anything except your hotness, so maybe you are just looking in the wrong place?
actually dressing has nothing to do with waht guys think of you.. unless you are wearing a full body covering burqa or a bikini on road, we actually look at your personality when we date.. for example if megan fox comes to us and starts talking like sylvester stallone.. not a single guy will date her.. i bet. Just remember 1 thing, the only people who care about your dressing are other women, i would go on a date with a girl who wears sweatpants and loose T-shirts if she's witty and fun to talk with. throw away your notion- MEN DONT CARE ABOUT YOUR DRESSING, ONLY OTHER WOMEN DO
Too loud is probably a turn off for most guys, I don't like it. Overdressing isn't a problem, neither is having a good job, although I avoid career-focused women as I prefer a family-focuses one like my girlfriend.
As long as the women earned her position through blood sweat and hard work I have nothing agaisnt her. Also I wish more women would wear dresses like the ladies from the 30s-50s kind of radiates class in my opinion.
I could never be threatened by what someone wears. That's retarded and superficial. A woman who has everything going for, is attractive.
Wear normal shoes and be fun, people prob feel like they're hanging out with their boss.
Not threatened, but just like the stress at work they want to get away from in the first place.
I've found when you are looking for love its hard to find. When you give up thats when you meet the person. Strange but true. Happened in my case but I let her go. Biggest regret to this day. Live and learn. Good luck.
What Girls Said 1
This is BS! A Woman can't win can she? Dress nice and you're too much.. dress down and you don't try hard enough.. ?