like if he's like a guy who's a player, and because of it, he's unsuccessful, well then yes, he appears as unsuccessful in my eyes because he is screwed, every other woman who knows he's this type of sh*t, won't go out with him
on the other hand
if he's the type to try hard to be a good boyfriend but the girls he goes out with just don't appreciate him for who he is, well then, there really isn't anything you can do with it. and he doesn't necessarily mean he's unattractive
well I really don't care if they have a big past or none at all when it comes to women. but usually the guys that don't hvae a past are unconfident and don't know how to approach women or even hold up a conversation with them that would actually interest us. but those guys that have no past or nearly nopast should be the ones that are attractive becuase you know they will be faithful.
You mean "I know you girls love a GUY that has tons of female attention and options." ? Actually, his success with women doesn't make me think any higher or lower of a guy. What matters is how he treats me and interacts me.
sometimes, but generaly only if the guy comes off like he's trying too hard. If he doesn't have loads of female attention but seems not to care that can sometimes be attractive, like he doesn't buy in to the whole competitive guy thing and is already secure in himself. That's my opinion anyway.
I actually like guys who are more unexperienced. There usually sweeter and less likely to take advantage of you. In fact, the guy I like now has NEVER had a girlfriend before me and I love him to death. It depends on what type of girl she is and what she is attracted to. But, it's not a bad thing.
Here's a simple experiment. To refresh this subject from the other stuff :)
To answer your question, do the following. Go to single female friends of yours (individually of course), and tell them you want to introduce them to a friend of yours.
Tell them that he is:
-PhD at 24 years old
-And he hasn't had a date in 10 years, kissed a girl and is still a virgin
What do you suppose their first reaction will be? For most girls (not all, but a huge majority)... their first question will be "What's wrong with him!?". Again, women will say they don't use a guy's previous romantic success as a barometer **whatsover!**, but the truth will show you differently.
I don't know if you'll get an honest answer from girls. They'll say they hate playas and/or a guy who's always surrounded by girls.
But both experience and science will tell you different. The more women a guy is seen with, the more attractive he's rated. The exact same guy when alone and when with girls, will be rated completely diferrently by girls. Tons of science and studies on this.