Say you see a guy and he's freaking hot! Nice face, body, everything. Then he comes over to talk to you and you have a decent little conversation. He asks you where your from and your name, and he teases you a little bit in there, but you can tell he's a little nervous. After a couple minutes he asks for you number and leaves.
He didn't come across as a big jerk, or a big loser. But he wasn't overly funny either.
K, I'm not gonna lie, I just described myself. I work out and try to look good and girls have always told me I'm way hot. I'm not saying this to brag, I just don't see why its so hard to get a girl. Yea I'm a little nervous when I first talk to a girl, but who isn't? Anyways when I call girls like this, you know like one or two days later, they only answer or call me back like maybe half the time. WHY? What is it that girls want?
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To be honest, just from reading your post, I wouldn't be interested either. Why? Because you are too into your looks. You also have a warped sense of reality about what works in a relationship. Being extremely good looking will only get you so far and it's no guarantee that you will be in a successful relationship. As much as I hate to stereotype and whatnot, very often, I find the "hottest" guys to be extremely bland in conversation; they look good but when it comes to talking, they are boring. That turns me off like nothing else. Because I've personally experienced this in the past so often, I specifically avoid model type looking guys. I have met a few really good looking guys (one who was a male model) who were very interesting individuals but they all had this "I look hot, I can get any girl I want mentality" and as soon as I find that out about them, I'm just turned off. No one likes conceited people.
I don't think it is your nerves that is turning girls off. Work on your personality; stop thinking that just because you look good, you can get girls. That might work for girls who are into superficial things in life, but bonds based on superficiality don't last.0
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