Why will he not commit?

I have been seeing this guy for 9 months! when I ask him why he won't just make me his girlfriend he keeps saying that something is holding him back but its not me. He also goes through phases where one minute he will call me everyday and send me nice texts than the next minute he won't speak to me... Show More

Most Helpful Girl

  • 9 months is being extremely patient. At this point, find a guy that you know wants you. He knows very well that he's not treating you the way he would if he was into completely into you. He's not going to get better after 9 months of this I promise. Just move on.