Why will he not commit?
I have been seeing this guy for 9 months! when I ask him why he won't just make me his girlfriend he keeps saying that something is holding him back but its not me. He also goes through phases where one minute he will call me everyday and send me nice texts than the next minute he won't speak to me for 3/4 days ...not even a text. I also arranged to meet up with him one day and said will text times on the day...he didn't bother, and said he forgot! Why is he like this?