We hit it off, now he's avoiding me.. any ideas why?
So this guy I like who I have known for about a month, we were hitting it off pretty well talking and flirting and he would always stare at me and smile and compliment me even though he's extremely shy. Even when I was talking to my best guy friend a lot he would continue to stare at me. We were even messaging back and forth on Facebook and would talk on Facebook for awhile. He even asked me my plans for Halloween and if I was going to my friend's party. The other night I saw him at a friends house. He walked in as I was hugging my other best guy friend (same guy he had seen me talking to before), and my best guy friend was telling me that he thought I looked cute. After that, my crush wouldn't say more than a couple words to me. He just avoided me then seemed irritated and left. Since then, I've written back to him on Facebook and he hasn't written back which is weird because he always writes back write away. I thought he liked me and now he has been avoiding me.. I really don't know what I did.. Did he lose interest?
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Most Helpful Opinion
its obvious that he thinks there's something between your best guy friend and you. you need to tell your crush if there is or isnt. he's confused and thinks you either don't like him or are two timing. clear this up quick otherwise you might lose him.
What Guys Said 1
Staring, smiling, complimenting is a good thing.. especially if shy. He was in a party situation, and may have gotten annoyed. People p*ss me off. When that happens, I shut everyone off. I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe send him a message on Monday and say something like "I hope you had fun at that party, it's too bad we didn't have much opportunity to hang out!"
What Girls Said 1
Guys are just complicated,and they are just as shy as girls are sometimesyou have to give stuff like this timeso this guy can process his feeling for yougive it a week at most but I'm surehe'll get back to being the same.,