there is this guy who teases me and I find it funny with some of his jokes…. he goes to my college he 19 years old he calls me this weird names (pronouncing my name in the wrong way) but other time it p*sses me off…. When he looks at me and smiles and I can’t help it but smile back at him or laugh I tried talking to about it ...one minute he's nice and next rude I don't get it… this is so weird I never used to be like this me smiling back at someone who is rude to me …. anyway why does he teases me?
What does he like or is he flirting what is it and what should I do?
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no to be honest, he is playing you like a flute...
some people are better at anticipating others reactions than most, therefore he knows pretty well how far he can take it without getting problems.
what you did was not good either, because you didn't stand up for yourself the moment he started which was as good as a "there you go, have your fun with me"
your talk with him probably was in private and he was understanding and all, but the moment you both were in "public" again, it went on just like nothing happened...
happened to me once while on an internship, I told them to stop it, and when they didn't I had a chat with his supervisor showing him evidence, the guy came over and apologized 3 times and I never heard of it again...
college is a little different, because its not as easy to exert power over some other student, which is by the way in my experience the only language they understand.
but you have to decide how you want to handle this and go through with it.
another question for you: are you maybe into this guy? judging from your reactions and that you put the question in the flirting section rather than in behavior