Does he feel rejected or is he not into me?
We hooked up last week before Valentines. I have a gut feeling that he really liked me because other girls have tried hooking up with him but he... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
You are just his hookup buddy. I know this because a guy who wants more will try to pin you down for a date in the future. A guy who just wants you when it's convenient is a guy who is just trying to schedule some sex into his day without messing up his plans to hang with friends or anything else he wants to do. Also, the fact that he stopped texting after you threw the comment about Valentines out there is 100% telling.
This is why being FWB is not fun. You ended up realizing that the guy puts you at the bottom of his list of things he wants to do.
What Guys Said 2
One thing I know... He's just no into ur schedule...
You were too busy and didn't have time to hang out so he got tired of it probably it was a turnoff from there and decided to just let it go.
What Girls Said 5
Yep, hook up buddy. You never hear from him until like a few hours before he wants sex. And he only asks you to come over, not go do things.
No rejection and nope, he isn't into you. He just wants to hit it with no effort.
I think maybe you should have given him a reason you couldn't hang out when you planned to... That was kind of dumb. He's probably not into you because you're full of excuses when he wanted to hang out & you broke plans.
Look back at the texts and look at his pattern. He seems to only make time for you during a specific window- "I'm free until 2 if you wanna hang." This indicates to me that he only wants to hook up. If he wanted to hang out beyond that window then he would. it really isn't that difficult to re-arrange one's schedule to meet with someone. He has opportunist tattooed to his forehead. Sorry. This is my perspective on it.
"... but didn't want to push him into a relationship, and didn't want it to be awkward after..."
Than why are you calling him ^ trying to make plans, & trying to figure out what it all means?/
Maybe you want more than you are thinking you do, in which case you should not be telling him you want something casual.. Planning on a valentines thing is kind of personal.
& hee does not want to hang in a public place cause he wants sex.. I don't know What you are confused about... He is being very casual, if yo Are ok with that, then fine, if not than you should stop bothering yourself & him... Just let it go NATURALLY.