We hooked up last week before Valentines. I have a gut feeling that he really liked me because other girls have tried hooking up with him but he hasn't gone for them. He was intent on my pleasure and not his. I told him I liked him, but didn't want to push him into a relationship, and didn't want it to be awkward after. We also made plans to hang-up the next day.
Boy: I'm free until 2 if you wanna come over
Me: I'm busy. We can hang out later
Boy: Okay...I'm kinda busy too Let me knoww what your schedule looks like later
Me: (Four hours later) Hows work?
Boy: Eh, its okay
Me: (Two hours later) What are you doing later
Boy: I just woke up from nap kinda behind on things
Me: Awww...good luck sad we won't see each other on Valentines
He didn't text back for six days. I texted him after
Me: Haven't seen you around. We should hang out soon.
Boy: Don't know what my weekend looks like. We'll see
Boy: I'm free until 2 if you wanna hang
Me: I'm working on a paper come to library
Boy: aww that's too bad I'm going to hang out with the boys for a bit
Me: How about later?
Boy: What time?
Boy: (An hour later) Let mee knoow what your schedule looks like
Me: (FIVE HOURS LATER) Ahhh! I think I'm almost done. You free?
Boy: I'm at a hockey game...maybe some other time.
Me: kks let me know
Me: (two hours later) I'm sorry my texts were so late. Our plans never work out :) I'm free now if you want to hang out.
He never texted back that night, and he was out with friends and other girls. Is he not that into me, or have my late texts seem like I'm disinterested, or are we just hook-up buddies? I'm not trying to play any games, I'm just really busy. He is a really good-looking guy so I think he doesn't want to seem available, but if he really likes me shouldn't he want to contact me?
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You are just his hookup buddy. I know this because a guy who wants more will try to pin you down for a date in the future. A guy who just wants you when it's convenient is a guy who is just trying to schedule some sex into his day without messing up his plans to hang with friends or anything else he wants to do. Also, the fact that he stopped texting after you threw the comment about Valentines out there is 100% telling.
This is why being FWB is not fun. You ended up realizing that the guy puts you at the bottom of his list of things he wants to do.