Why is she always ignoring me and blowing me off, when it seems that she likes me?

here is my story: When I met her, she seemed to dig me, she was very friendly and flirty I must say. Then the second time and from then on she kept and keeps ignoring me, like she doesn't even want to say hi. Yet her face, her eyes and some of her actions say otherwise, like she does like me.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Some women tend to have that personality where they just can't be mean in person. Maybe she isn't in to you, but doesn't want to seem rude when confronted? Be then again, what exactly is it about her face and eyes that make you feel otherwise? As well as her actions? Maybe she just seems nice... or is it more along the lines of flirty? That's one view...

    Another view is the concept of "actions speaking louder than words." Maybe she's shy and doesn't know how to convey that she perhaps really interested in you (doubtful as you said she was very friendly and flirty), so has resorted to actions over words. When you say flirty... was she flirty verbally or physically?

    You should also consider the "first time you met." That could also mean everything. At a club or party sometimes is a result of drinks or not thinking straight because one might want to try something wild. School, could be different, flirty to be friendly and such, but maybe after getting to know you she's not sure. Maybe she sees you as clingy. How often do you text? What do you say when you text (don't need to answer that, but consider it). If you're overly flirtatious, she may be unprepared for a relationship and so keeps you at distance. Or maybe she doesn't mind flirting, but doesn't want to be serious.


What Girls Said 5

  • Maybe she wants you to chase her.

  • How is anyone other then her gonna know that? :P

    • I hope for the best.:)

  • Maybe she was having a bad day, or maybe she didn't even notice you when you walked by. Next time say hello and see how she reacts

  • say hello to her again first.. maybe she didn't look at you cause she didn't want you to feel obligated to talk her..

    • Why would she do that?

    • I don't know thats what i do sometimes if im into a guy.. i don't talk to him first unless i make sure he's really interested!:)

  • Sometimes a girl may ignore a guy she likes, because she is not sure about the guys true intentions or feelings towards her. I say this because this is how I am

    if I like a guy and I'm not sure how he feels, it will get very frustrating for me, and I will act out, but it is more subconsciously then consciously, I don't mean to do it, but I do, because its how I deal, its not what I want to do. What I really what to do, I can't do, and it really sucks.

    • But I just met her!, don't you think it might be too early to start thinking about things like these.

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    • no I am not immature, I just pissed out of the can on this one.

    • I wasn't refering you, but w/e

What Guys Said 4

  • because you didn't say hello first?

    • She didn't even look at me when we walked past each other..

    • maybe she's shy.

  • shes ignoring you cus she doesn't like u.

    if a girl really likes a guy she won't brush him off, period.

    • You obviously find the easy women, don't you? Share.

    • a girl decides if she's gonna ignore you, f*** you, or murder you within the first 10 seconds.

    • Or she wants him to chase her.

  • Regardless of what the reason was, nothing good comes from thinking about it. Nothing. Either go for it or don't, then eat a pizza.