In a typical relationship, the man is usually the big spoon and the girl the little spoon. Anyone ever switch that up? I'm usually the big spoon but occasionally when we sleep in a bed together or if we're just laying down, my girlfriend has occasionally been big spoon.
I prefer being big spoon just Because I like holding her. She's obviously smaller so it makes more sense lol. But occasionally I kinda like being little spoon. is this weird? anyone else sometimes like that? or girls sometimes like doing big spoon?
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I like being both equally! I'm little and my boyfriend is a bit chubby but I like to wrap my arms around him because he's warm and makes me feel like I'm cuddling with a big teddy bear :P. I like giving him kissies on his back too.
I think it is perfectly normal for a guy to want to be the little spoon sometimes as well. Me and my man probably share these roles and I am perfectly fine with it. There are nights that he wants to be held and I always give him kisses on his back. He is of coarse bigger than me like most me but it still works.
I think it's fun to switch it up once in a while. It always feels nice to be the one who is held! Plus its cute when girls try to figure out how to do it, always ends up feeling perfect even though you know they have no clue how to do it =P
I 100% agree that sometimes it's nice to be the little spoon for a change! More just because it's fun/cute to do it the "wrong way". But really, if it is someone I care about, I'll love any kind of physical contact!