Spooning? Ever change up the big spoon/little spoon?
In a typical relationship, the man is usually the big spoon and the girl the little spoon. Anyone ever switch that up? I'm usually the big spoon but occasionally when we sleep in a bed together or if we're just laying down, my girlfriend has occasionally been big spoon.
I prefer being big spoon just Because I like holding her. She's obviously smaller so it makes more sense lol. But occasionally I kinda like being little spoon. is this weird? anyone else sometimes like that? or girls sometimes like doing big spoon?
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What Girls Said 3
I like both equally. It depends on my mood - do I want to be held, or do I want to hold him? I don't mind having that "protector" feeling either, it's not just a male thing in my eyes.
When falling asleep though... little spoon is such a good feeling when you're dozing off. Little spoon with his hand on my boob, haha.
I think it is perfectly normal for a guy to want to be the little spoon sometimes as well. Me and my man probably share these roles and I am perfectly fine with it. There are nights that he wants to be held and I always give him kisses on his back. He is of coarse bigger than me like most me but it still works.
What Guys Said 3
I think it's only natural for guys to want to be the big spoon. We like to be the protector, and by being the big spoon we protect her vulnerable back.
Not that there's anything wrong with switching places. It can feel nice but at the end both genders will prefer the man as big spoon.
And in fact having a girl expose her back while sleeping, especially towards the door, can make both the guy and the girl to sleep less good.