I'm really starting to hate my ex, but then again I still have feelings for him.

I'm really starting to hate my ex, but then again I still have feelings for him. My point for this question is that I really don't understand something and its making me so angry. My ex and I ended things because he was going to the marines later this Nov. Basically Is was going to be difficult and he felt that I was going to hold him back or he was holding me back from life (something like that) And so he also wanted to be by himself. Right now he has a new girlfriend! I REALLY don't understand why he would have someone new in his life when he is LEAVING! I don't get it! And I think its pretty mess up that he has drag some into a road of feelings,when he is leaving. It makes me so Angry cause I don't know why he did this to me..Does anyone know why a guy would do this?

The annoying thing is that,Im hanging around a friend that I knew for 3yrs,he doesn't know him personally only went to school with him.My friend is not like other guys,Hes very kind,respectful..basically a gentleman..then out of no where tells me that my friend is trying to sleep with me..WTH? I'm 100% sure that's not true,I know how my friend is..He just told me randomly,For one if he had a girlfriend why care who wants to sleep with me or who I sleep with?


Most Helpful Guy

  • > I'm really starting to hate my ex,but then again I still have feelings for him.

    Stop it. He's your ex for a REASON.

    > Right now he has a new girlfirend!

    So... you can be replaced. Accept it.

    > He needs someone at all times and finds someone wherever he goes.

    Check this out: link

    Sounds like your boyfriend.

    So he might expect you to be there if/when he comes back. He'll probably be right.

    You're really begging for punishment.


What Guys Said 5

  • Yes. He is a coward. He used the marines as an excuse along with the whole "I'm going to hold you back" speech. I don't know exactly everything about your relationship but I'm guessing he used it as an excuse because he just doesn't like you anymore, I know that might be tough to hear/think but that really the only reason I see.

  • he's a jerk. he's with a new girl because he Does not care how she feels?

    just let him go and be your own person.

  • hey .. hehehe he needs sexual relationship right now ...im a lieutenant and I have an experience in those issues

  • I think he did it because he cares ... as strange as that sounds. The other girl means nothing to him, which is fine because he is now leading a here today gone-tomorrow lifestyle.

    Does this make any sense ?


What Girls Said 1

  • Well think of it this way, he has about 6 months left of freedom and he had to decide what to do with that time. He either realized he doesn't see himself with you in the future so he ended it here to have fun with other girls or that's actually the girl he wants to be with and he took a shot at it.

    I don't really see any other reason, I'm sorry.