I might be falling in love with this guy and I don't like it at all. I had promised myself to never love anyone again because of something that happened in the past. But my feelings for this guy is really strong and I can't help but flirt with him all the time and laugh and play with him. He plays with me too and I try to ignore him but he keeps on talking to me and playing with me. I don't know how I should ignore him because I don't think he likes me and I don't wanna deepen my feelings even more or else I will fall hard, and on my face. I can't risk that again. And I want to ignore him but I always break the rule :/ . So what should I do? and how should I ignore him?
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Just stay disciplined, busy and time will help you take care of the rest
Unfortunately, we don't have a "stop" or "pause" button for feelings like we do for movies, lol.
Why do you think he doesn't like you? How long do you know him? Ask some of his friends if he told them about you or if he fancies someone.
Ignoring could help, but if he doesn't know why, the friendship might be ruined. Imagine a friend of you suddenly ignoring you and you don't know why. You'd be worried and a bit angry (well, I would be).
You could just fess up and tell him how you feel and see how it goes. If he says no, just go on with your other subjects to talk about.
Or you could ask him out on a date? If he says no, you know the deal.
He might not even know you fancy him, he might fancy you back! You never know if you don't take the leap. He might feel the same way.
I don't think ignoring is gonna help your friendship. So I wouldn't recommend it.