Hey. So there is this really cute girl in my morning class. Saw her first day of classes and instantly started crushing. We've talked but only during group stuff in class, nothing outside of class. I missed some really good opportunities to talk to her and now that I realize that waiting around won't make for new opportunities, I have to make my move to initiate and get things going. I really want to get to know her.
So I planned on "coincidentally" be walking next to her when class gets out. We walk to the same place. And asking her if I could borrow her notes from the previous class. I can get them back to her later. So when we meet later, I could get her for a casual conversation and if it goes well ask if she'd want to get coffee sometime. Thoughts? And suggestions please lol.
Another thing, she usually has her headphones in like she'll put them in almost right after she leaves class. Do I abort mission in this case or bother her anyways?
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Last I checked, I'm not a girl, but I just thought it was worth considering... Your plan isn't exactly fool proof. Why would you need to meet up with her later to get her notes back if you have class together anyway?
Class and school work are kinda boring topics, too. Just strike up a light hearted convo with her after class sometime while you're walking off to wherever it is you're both headed. I've become close with a really good looking girl (who I totally would've considered out of my league before) just by doing that. After a few weeks we'd start siting together etc and it just grows naturally. Just be fun and light hearted when you chat after class and you should be good, you don't need any big plan.
Good luck, brother.