Acted aloof and uninterested and now the girl is ignoring me?
As my name says, I AM CLUELESS about how to flirt, interact etc. with girls.So this girl I know for almost a year used to like me (physically at least). She would look at my way, trying to catch my eye and everything. But I am an idiot and tried to act cool, aloof and uninterested, in hopes of playing hard to get or whatever... I didn't flirt with her and now we are in some awkward situation... She IGNORES me while passing by, and I am too egoistical to acknowledge the fact, so I ALSO IGNORE her... HELP ME I REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL :(
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Most Helpful Opinion
I'd ignore you too. If a guy ignores me then I presume he has no interest and move on. If I figure out that he's playing games then I'm turned off and my interest is gone. Just hope she is a little more forgiving than me and try to talk to her but don't be surprised if you've ruined your chance
What Girls Said 3
If you really like her that much, get off your high horse and say hi and be the first to initiate. Acting cold and aloof probably hurt her a lot if she really liked you, so that was just stupid on your part, and you need to fix it. Sorry, that was mean. =/
I agree with cazza
well. as someone who's shy with the opposite gender myself I feel your pain lol. but, I think all in all, most girls expect the guy to make the first move. yes, it kinda sucks, but that's just how it goes. men are typically the mor edominant ones, girls associate that with interest so if your not making a move she'll assume you aren't interested ! nothing major, just say HEY or WHATSUP. trust me ... if you just say hey a few times and make her feel like you wanna talk she'll come around.
What Guys Said 1
Be a man, sack up, go talk to her. You played it like a fool to begin with, don't play it like a fool now.